tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-13452652.post6389604041902357441..comments2023-04-06T19:00:33.821+10:00Comments on pull up to my bumper: the dramamissy vashttp://www.blogger.com/profile/09818370340227066003noreply@blogger.comBlogger4125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-13452652.post-75135375108565171032007-05-13T17:17:00.000+10:002007-05-13T17:17:00.000+10:00Long time lurker - not sure if I have ever comment...Long time lurker - not sure if I have ever commented here before. If not, HI! <BR/><BR/>I'm posting because my fiance and I have had counselling and it was the BEST thing - the absolute BEST BEST thing we have ever done. We first saw someone at relationships australia, then went to a woman just off Victoria Rd, Rozelle. It was a very big step to take, but we wouldn't be getting married if we hadn't done it. I would encounrage you to BEG your husband to go - make the appointment, tell him when it is, and remind him of the committment he made to you when you got married. And the commitment he made to your daughter by helping create her. Remind him how much he means to you and how much you want this relationship.<BR/><BR/>If you would like the woman's name I went to, please email me at belinda@crankybee.com <BR/><BR/>And good luck!crankyhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/06359870139026889309noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-13452652.post-53582475829946903862007-05-12T22:35:00.000+10:002007-05-12T22:35:00.000+10:00I hope all works out well for you.Have a lovely 1s...I hope all works out well for you.<BR/><BR/>Have a lovely 1st Mother's Day. How special! xxSuzyhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/04993485233936962681noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-13452652.post-51696652300169044702007-05-12T16:08:00.000+10:002007-05-12T16:08:00.000+10:00Sorry to hear about the marriage problems but I'm ...Sorry to hear about the marriage problems but I'm sure they'll work themselves out. Hubby is probably having a hard time being the sole provider & feels all the financial pressure right now. <BR/><BR/>Good luck :)Madelynehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/15959014240938309081noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-13452652.post-40714273260934316652007-05-10T06:22:00.000+10:002007-05-10T06:22:00.000+10:00Hey, I'm sorry to hear all that you have been goin...Hey, I'm sorry to hear all that you have been going through. I think having a baby changes you and your relationship in such a huge way. Things won't ever be the same, but sometimes it can make things even stronger. Keep working on it. The first year is the hardest. So so hard, and I know.. your relationship suffers. We faced our hardest challenges around the age that Lila is at the moment - we were very close to separating (I think because of the changes and struggles inside me, rather than him), we really were in a terrible place. Then I got pregnant again! Hehe, at the time it was horrifying, but in the end, it was what brought us back together - and we have got much better at communicating and making time to be lovers & friends again, rather than co-parents. <BR/><BR/>I really hope you guys can work this out. :-(Katehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/12314594684691084045noreply@blogger.com